Life is all about good and bad days. Sometimes we are criticized for construction whereas the other times we are criticized for destruction. However, in most often cases, criticism is always done for the removal of the mistakes we have in common.
In our society, criticism has been taken in a negative way where multiple individuals keep a huge hatred for it. It sounds, to the society, as the worst attack by the second person and considered like an outrageous epidemic.
Everyone, living in this planet, is joyful to encounter multitude outcomes, but holding the strengthening denial to even have the taste of being criticized once in life varies.
It took my breath away the moment when one of my classmates told me with uncontrolled emotions, “I am really no more desirous and feeling inaccessibility of ambitioness in me for my studies. I want to quit the soonest as I am no longer capable to tolerate the rebuke of students towards me. They use to call me the weakest student of the class which hurts me every single minute of my existence. I just want to end all this drama right away.”
I got disappointed listening to her grievance and got myself lost in the deep ocean of thoughts. I questioned myself again and again, “Does criticism boost up negativity in immoral ways? Does it discourage and demotivate all way long? Does it kill the dreams in ample time of period?” And I received the answer “no” from my inner soul.
It is because criticism is never the worst but the best source to progress. It makes the fallen people stand back on their feet. It brings love in hearts of people who hate. It makes one courageous when he or she has been dragged into discouragement. Even it lightens up the darkest ways by depicting so many techniques to obtain succuss stories.
Criticism is the realistic backbone that vanishes backwardness. Until we come across this criticism, we remain with the same failure and unsucceeded attempts of life. Since criticism is not for negative motives, but a phase that opens up the doors of progressivesness.
Factually, it is rigorous to find a single successful person who has become an example without having the taste of criticism. They were and are till date being criticized, but all they got is the positive side of it.
Being criticised is being hopeful for a better tomorrow. Unless we are criticised, we do not get the courage to have decisions to do charismatic things in life to be renowned forever.
So let your soul, presence and existence be criticized. You must be even more willing to have more and more criticism regarding you and your activities. These are the greatest tools to have self motivation and build self-esteem by getting an unforgettable name in the hearts and minds of critics.
Say thanks and have gratitude for criticism that ownd us a life filled with unlimited drops of gladness. Because, criticism construct in us what we never had before.